Every week Kevin publishes his very own Kev’s column online. This week he shares his thoughts as the big day approaches:
This week I thought I had everything planned, couple of Christmas meet ups with friends, time to write some personal Christmas Cards and a session due at the shops to pick up some last minute presents.
Then on Monday I got a call that my Mother was unwell and being taken into Derriford Hospital in Plymouth. She was diagnosed with Bowel Cancer nearly three years ago and has been receiving treatment since. Plans dropped, apologies sent, cards not written and headed off immediately to be with my Dad and her. Thankfully she is doing a lot better and is back at home now.
My Mum always likes to be prepared and one of the first things she worried about was not being ready for Christmas. I started to think the same, whilst I have done official cards, only a handful will be getting a personal one from me. I will also need a quick flit to the shops to get those last minute presents.
Yet I then thought again about what being ready for Christmas really means. It is easy to get taken up in the rush to buy presents, get food in and send cards.
The commercial side of Christmas is massive and in many ways can take over our thoughts at this time of year. Sadly far too many families will be facing debt that is hard to manage in the New Year thanks to rushing out to buy the “must have” gift for their children.
Perhaps the biggest symbol of this commercial side is the fact Father Christmas as he is now seen, a big jolly man in a bright red suit, originates from a 1931 advert for Coca Cola. You can read the history here: http://www.coca-colacompany.com/holidays/the-true-history-of-the-modern-day-santa-claus
As a Christian the Church has always been at the heart of my Christmas celebrations. Carol Services the weekend before, Midnight Mass, then one of the Morning Services on the day itself. The Nativity Scene of the Holy Family in the stable behind the Inn with the animals around them being at the forefront of the service.
Yet the nativity scene is not just about those in it, but a reminder for us all that being ready for Christmas is not about buying presents or sending cards. It is about being together with those we love and offering friendship to those we do not know, as relevant today as it was over 2,000 years ago on that First Christmas when the greatest gift was a child.
I hope this Christmas is a good one for you, your family and friends.